People who don't know my mom call her crazy. People who DO know my mom call her just the opposite. Everyone who knows my mom calls her loving, kind, rational, smart, and supportive. Multiple therapists have examined her and found her to not be crazy, and to be mentally sound. My sisters were examined in June before they were forced to run away, and the psychologist Dr. Hyde currently attests that it would be harmful to my sisters to be removed from our mother's custody. All three of us know that our mother is not abusive.
People who don't know my father call him loving and kind. People who live with him behind closed doors, under his authority, know that he is not. All three of his daughters who are old enough to articulate detailed accounts of his abuse agree that our father is abusive. He is consistently abusive. He is chronically abusive. He seems to be unwilling to change how abusive he is, despite his admitted years of investigations into his abuse.
It seems he has a bunch of trashy followers who are out to do nothing but harm. I feel sorry for the Allred children as their parents are so consumed with defending an abuser. Makes me wonder what happens in their home, too.
ReplyDeleteIt seems a group of disabled mormons have ganged up on you girls and it's disgusting. You have so much support and we know the girls RAN AWAY from their abusive "father."
Now is not a good time for them to come out of hiding. I hope they are safe and having a good Christmas together! Stay safe, girls!!
Hi, I've been following your story and just wanted to say we believe you and we are praying for you.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate that more than I can say. Thank you so much.
DeleteThis man is a sexual deviate and obviously predatory towards his daughters...no person in their right mind would return these two girls back to this monster...is there no justice in this world for these innocent girls? Is there no one with the means to help...please help these girls...!
ReplyDeleteI echo your plea, anonymous.
DeleteWith all that I am reading, it is a solid fact that all three girls and Michelle tried to use the court system in the right manner to accuse Brian of abuse, and have their voices heard...Brian did everything he could to thwart their objective. It is obvious to me that he only cares about his reputation, and cover up his twisted evil ways. If he were to ever get the girls back into his life, he would make them so miserable...they would have no choice to run away again. I am not ashamed to say that if they cannot find a way to be heard in court, and resolve this, and no one is willing to help them...then I hope that Michelle and the girls stay out of this man's reach until they are 18 years old...then I would seriously advise the girls to have an extremely limited contact with this side of the family, and virtually no contact with Brian. As members of the Mormon church, no where does it say in the scriptures that after you forgive your abuser, that you must continue to have a relationship with him. This man has caused serious harm to his family, and he will continue to do so...He is so sick that it will take years of therapy to help him. Angies' family MUST intervene before he brings irreparable harm to her and their daughter Abby...I hope that they are paying attention, and listening to what this man has done...There are giant red flags on this man, and they had better open their eyes...
ReplyDeleteIt's a tragedy that these girls are forced to resort to hiding because they have been failed in so many ways. First their father subjects them to an abusive home life and then a corrupt court system takes them from the only loving and safe place they had:their home in Utah with their mother.
ReplyDeleteSadly, I am not surprised that the courts failed them in this way. It happens far too frequently. Children are returned to their abusers, are made to suffer and receive no protection, while their abuser is protected and rewarded. One can easily search the internet and find case after case of children suffering horrific abuse at the hands of a parent or step parent, and for some insane reason, the courts are either negligent or outright corrupt, and they take the side of the abuser, and offer the child absolutely no protection. In some cases the courts even break the law in order to rule in favor of the abusive party. It really makes you wonder what is going on behind the scenes in these cases.
It does make you wonder. There are countless cases of the system failing children. Things are not as they seem to outsiders, who don't have any experience dealing with the family courts.
DeleteThere may be times when we are powerless to prevent injustice. But there must never be a time when we fail to protest. -Elie Wiesel
ReplyDeleteMia, is that from the book Night? I love that quote, it describes how I feel. Thank you.
DeleteI have not read the book Night. But I looked it up now that you mentioned it. Thank you. I saw this quote on Pinterest.. lol!
DeleteBrittany, this is Catherine Grace from Twitter. I just want to re-iterate that I believe you, your sisters AND your mom. My prayers are with you all.
DeleteI am asking for those who pray to contact me on Twitter so we can join together in our prayers. The 'prayer of agreement' is VERY powerful. Make no mistake Abba, Father uses Twitter & He answers prayer. My @Catherinemoncad
I'm staying on this in every way I know to support you girls until this has been seen through to a successful, satisfactory solution.
You are ALL very brave & strong.
Catherine, you are a strong woman. Prayer is the most powerful tool, in my opinion. Thank you so much for your support.
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